1. Take what’s yours - I Like to use this poker analogy. To win consistently at poker you must be able to accumulate not only the biggest pots but also the pots that are for sale. The same is true when trying to hook up in Vegas. Many times opportunities are right in front of your face however because of a number of different reasons you pass on them. Don’t focus only on the bars and nightclubs, take a long look at the girl you meet in the elevator, or your waitress at breakfast. A lot of times these women give off strong signals that simply go ignored.
2. Be persistent - Hooking up with women is a numbers game plan and simple. You must continue to take your shot if you hope to finally score. don’t give up so easy, yea maybe the first 9 girls turn you down but the 10th one could be the charm and it only takes one. It can be difficult to constantly take rejection but don’t look at it as rejection look at it as practice.
3. Keep it Moving - A players game must be mobile. I am guilty of this mistake some times when I am out, you meet a girl and strike up a conversation with her. You rattle off a few questions in a row and she reluctantly answers them and instantly the vibe goes from a seductive encounter to a questionnaire. When you meet a girl come on strong and confident and then keep it moving. Women typically know if they are going to hook up with a guy within minutes of meeting him. Therefore there is no reason to linger. Think of it as a sales pitch. Make your elevator pitch and get on with it.
4. Forget respect - This might be a little harsh, but respect is earned and not given. Have you ever wondered why girls seem to go for the bad boy type? Well it is because they bad boy is constantly forcing women to earn respect from them. To many guys are way to quick to grab their heels and bend over for any woman they meet. When you meet a girl instead of trying to earn her respect focus on getting her to earn your respect. After all, if this happens to blossom into a relationship down the road most likely it is you that will be stuck with the bills.
5. Value your time - This is the most important of the 5 tips and it encompasses a little of each of the four previous tips. Your time is valuable understand that and make sure you put that first. To many times guys get wrapped up in jumping through hoops for women. They believe that somehow the more hoops that they jump through the more likely they are to get what they want. This is a myth, don’t waste your time dwelling on a girl that is not interested, get your no from her and move on.
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